Tuesday, August 8, 2017

When every Indian female divorcee has the same goddamn story-Bhaveen Sheth DOTSIM

This Single Indian man, Bhaveen Sheth writes on divorced Indian women.Many divorcees opt for a second marriage and if they are questioned on the reasons for getting divorced, they all have one common story. Having met and interacted with many divorcees myself through online matrimonial sites and having heard the stories of many Indian men who have met divorcees for a possible matrimonial alliance, I summarise the commonly repeated stories told by Indian female divorcees.

The divorcee woman will first and foremost always complain about her former husband. She will make him sound like a villain.He will be portrayed as a sadist who had no emotions, remorse or forgiveness.So what was really wrong with him? Well, he was wicked, he used to beat and abuse his spouse, he resorted to physical violence, he was mentally unstable, he was an alcoholic/drug addict/chain smoker, he was a sex maniac and watched pornography 24*7.he was kinky and sadist in the bedroom, he was impotent, he had low self esteem, he suffered from depression,he was not adequately qualified, he could not hold a job for more than six months, he never gave me time, he was immature,he did not grow up to take responsibilities that comes in a marriage,he was a mama's boy, he forced me to get money from my parents even after marriage, he never cared for me,he was still in a relationship with his former girlfriend, he was a miser, he never bought a house or a car,he never gave me my space, he refused to shift out from his parents home and stayed with them. In short he was the worst husband in the world.


Now we come to the other members of the family of the former husband, the father, the mother, the brother, the sister and other close relatives.All of them were villains belonging to different fraternities of  Bollywood movies and Indian television serials.The father in law was a patriarch, misogynist and a male chauvinistic pig.In short he was the dominating  Amrish Puri of the house.The mother in law was an upgraded version of Nirupa Roy, Bindu and Aruna Irani being extremely dominant, dictatorial, controlling and insecure.She had a complete hold over her son and constantly interfered in the marriage.The brother in law was some wayward fellow lost in his own world and in some cases he molested this now divorcee woman who is sitting in front of you and telling you her sad story.The sister in law was an extremely jealous woman , she was a caricature of all those monster sister in laws we get to see on Saas Bahu television series produced by Ekta Kapoor.In short the whole family was villainous and dysfunctional.


Never will one hear any of these women admitting to their own faults or mistakes. In extremely rare cases and that would be like six sigma, a woman may admit that she too was wrong.

To many single Indian men who are looking out for marriage and have met a divorcee, please read my post carefully. If a woman is constantly blaming her former husband and in laws for her failed marriage then there is something that is seriously wrong with her. Just take my advice and avoid such a kind of woman, she will only bring ruin and destruction to your life.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth