Friday, June 16, 2017

The good Indian woman is dead-Bhaveen Sheth DOTSIM

In this writeup, Bhaveen Sheth , the single Indian man writes an obituary for the good Indian woman, he honestly pays a tribute to all the good things she did for her family and the society.She is one of those nameless and faceless woman who has never been appreciated. In this write up I put in my thoughts for her appreciation and adulation.




The dawn of the 21st century has been difficult for the Indian society. In the last two decades we have seen a rapid transformation on the side of the Indian women, but this transformation has been for the worse,We get to seen a lot of arm chair feminists, pseudo feminists, middle class Indian princesses and of course feminazis. It is only after dealing with such women does one realize the importance and the relevance of good Indian women.They were the women who were there in our father's and grandfather's times, they were the real women of substance, their feminine presence and charm was wonderful, their demeanor and grace commanded respect, they converted simple houses into wonderful homes, what wonderful women they were.

They too used to be ambitious but they chose to put the needs and requirements of the family before theirs.They worked hard in bringing up a family, raising children and maintaining strong family bonds.They did all the housework without cribbing or complaining, they sat down and tutored their children, cooked meals and served it to their husbands and gave them good company.They were certainly not materialistic, small things made them happy, seeing their family happy brought joy to them. They did not get sucked into this wave of feminism. Some of them worked in offices and institutions and yet did not neglect their families.After work they would go home, cook and prepare for the next day. 

They were cost conscious as they would even save a small penny for the future.Narcissism and self obsession was never a part of their personality trait.Guests were always entertained at home and these women would make it a point to play the role of good hostesses without being asked for.Their cooking skills were exemplary, each woman was a master cook in her own way.Their speeches and conversations were wonderful, never did they use abusive language filled with expletives and profanities.They took care of the elders and took up the role of dutiful daughters. They were givers of love and affection.Some of these women were not educated but they were extremely skillful and street smart. All of them were wonderful in their own way.They were the epitome of a wonderful family and a pillar of the Indian society. Today we miss them badly, these women no longer exist, at best they are an endangered species and at worse they are extinct.

As I come to the end of this post , I clearly state that we are now seeing a new toxic species of Indian women who have been indoctrinated into the wrong ideas of feminism. These women will not cook, they will not clean, and they will not take care of their homes.All they will do is study bullshit educational courses, get worthless degrees that have no employment value, undertake jobs that are boring and miserable and claim that they are the strong empowered Indian women. They will spend their entire salaries on beautifying themselves.They are too self centred,too self obsessed and narcissistic.Maturity has never dawned upon them.To tell you the truth, no one wants them, no man wants them as a wife, no parent want them as a daughter, no one wants them as a daughter in law.These women have become unwanted even in their homes Their parents see them as an unwanted burden. Day by day their(parents) worry rises , after all ,which decent man would like to marry such a woman. 

One will find scores of such women  in India mostly in their 30's and 40's who are still single and miserable.And if any of you women belonging to this category are reading this post , I suggest that you have a good look at yourself and what you really are. A good Indian woman in spite of all her imperfections is always desired.Women of your kind will always be considered unwanted.This is the real truth of many Indian women of today's times.

Ending this post, I feel sad that our society has fallen to such miserable times. As Indian men we miss the good Indian women.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH