Monday, July 17, 2017

Kyaa Kar Sakti Hai Police? Bhaveen Sheth DOTSIM

In this short post, the single Indian man would like to share a popular video on you tube of a scene form the  Bollywood movie "GUDDU RANGEELA".

In this video, a police man on an inspector level is threatening suspected robbers on what the police can do against anyone. Have a look below:


In a brilliant acting done by Amit Sial, he shows the reality of the Indian police.All Indian men should watch this video an think, how biased and prejudiced the policing system is in India really is.

We have often seen women complaining at police stations and falsely accusing their husbands and in-laws. In order to make a quick buck or being influenced by the woman and her family, the police books the man and his family in all sorts of false cases like 498a, domestic violence, harassment and a lot more.

This is a reality that all Single Indian men must know especially those who are planning to get married.

This post was just to create and awareness amongst all Single Indian men and they need to be aware of this in their daily dealing with women.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH

Friday, July 14, 2017

NOT INTERESTED IN YOU IF YOU CANNOT COOK

This article is written on behalf of all Alpha Indian men who share a similar opinion that no matter what , a woman should know cooking if she wants to get married and become a wife. Educated or not educated , cooking skill is mandatory requirement in all Indian women who want to get hitched. The Single Indian man clearly stated to all Indian men reading this blog that whenever they go looking out for a spouse in an arranged marriage setup, they should ask whether the woman knows this or not. This is nothing to feel embarrassed or shameful about. Writing as a third person please find my post below:

As Indian men we too have expectations and there is nothing wrong about it.We love good food and fine cooking.Our moms have always given us the best meals. Is it wrong if we expect the same from our wives or future wives?

Feminist media has sold a false ideology to the modern Indian women which considers cooking as equivalent to slavery.This has made many Indian women averse to cooking and they fail to learn and master this important skill. Have a look at the false propaganda on internet




Go and ask any of these so called modern Independent women, do they know how to cook? Can they manage cooking and grocery shopping? The answer is no! They can't. They are just busy doing unnecessary work like chatting on whats app, social media, binge watching television episodes, clubbing, pubbing, outings. They live mostly on takeaways, home deliveries and meals cooked by maids. Some of these women are so pathetic that they can't even operate a gas stove. Have a look at a video down below:



This is the real condition of today's so called modern empowered Indian women.

Cooking is an important skill that each and every Indian women must know if she wants to get married, have a happy family and married life and raise healthy children.Why is child and teen obesity rising in India? The answer is that women are not able to cook healthy food and are feeding junk and garbage food to her children. 

If Indian men are considered worthy because of their education, salaries, property and car ownership then and Indian woman should definitely be considered worthy based on her knowledge of culinary skills.

There is nothing wrong if Indian men look for a wife who knows how to cook or is willing to learn the same.It is necessary.Men work hard all day long,they need good food for breakfast, lunch and dinner and the responsibility falls on the wife.

S if an Indian woman does not know how to cook, she should not be considered as a suitable alliance and Indian men should take up a stand in rejecting them. I rest my case here. PERIOD.

This is Bhaveen Sheth singning off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH

Monday, July 10, 2017

THEY WILL ALL VISIT YOUR PROFILE BUT NONE WILL SHOW ANY INTEREST- BHAVEEN SHETH DOTSIM

In this short blog post I write down certain trends that I have observed on the online matrimonial platforms.

In January this year , quite reluctantly I once again registered myself on a matrimonial site. Yaaa!!! You guessed right, shaadi.com!!!It was done just to show the world that people like me do exist (especially when women complain that there are no good men left in India.)

After my registration some interests did come but nothing proceeded further and now I hardly get any expression of interests.I am not bothered because I know better. But recently I have observed that my profile views have drastically increased. Many potential matches have visited my profile, some have done it repeatedly but there has been no expression of interest.

My profile pictures, education and profession may make me a potential suitor but because of a zero family background I hardly stand a chance. On my profile I have been extremely transparent about myself stating each and every aspect of my life and accordingly I have written the content under the heading "ABOUT MYSELF". But somewhere I feel that it the truth that is repelling them. After all who would want to associate with a n orphan ? Who would want to marry his daughter/sister to marry a person who has no family? I am looked upon with suspicion. Yes sir, this is the harsh reality of being an orphan in India.People may sympathize with you but none will empathize. Didn't a wise man say that marriage is a union between two families and not 2 individuals.

At-least I now have an answer if someone were to ask me why online matrimonial sites never worked in my favour? It is written in this post of mine.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH

Sunday, July 9, 2017

On ungrateful Indian women by Bhaveen Sheth-DTOSIM

The single Indian man writes in the topic of ungrateful Indian women,One comes across them in different walks of life. No matter how good someone is towards them,no matter what help people have done towards them, these women remain perpetually ungrateful towards everything and everyone.They constantly crib criticise and blame each and everyone.In this blog post, I would like to put in my own thoughts and opinions on them.



We come across Indian women who are  ungrateful towards people, situations, events and things.They have never appreciated how people have gone beyond their limits to meet their expectations.These are the women criticise their fathers,mothers, siblings, classmates, boyfriends and husbands for each and everything. For get  any acknowledgement of help and support, these women think that they are entitled for better treatment and privileged to get things out of turn.They have had their way during childhood and now as an adult one gets to see the manifestation of a sociopathic behaviour.

One can easily identify by the statements they make.They often criticise their boyfriends or spouses for not doing enough for them, they speak bad things about people who have stood by them during their difficult times.They treat human relationship as a tissue paper that is to be used and discarded.When things go wrong they tend to put the blame on others.Their expectations are extremely high but they themselves are mediocre.However they are blessed with fair skin or above average looks, hence we see Indian men wagging their tails like dogs in order to meet their expectations.


My heart goes out to the men who have married these ungrateful Indian women.These men are victims of domestic emotional abuse constantly being criticised no matter how hard they work to better care givers, providers, husbands and spouses. Denigrating their husbands and comparing them with other successful men are strong arm tactics of emotional abuse used by these ungrateful Indian women.

As I finish writing this blog post , I fail to understand how ungrateful Indian women are in-spite of getting each and everything that a 21st century urban Indian women get and that too without working hard for it.These women have never seen the struggles that their Indian counterparts face in India's small towns and rural villages. Had they seen of experienced it, they would have been grateful and filled with gratitude. But that is certainly not the case her.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH

Tuesday, June 20, 2017

Indian society is equally intolerant of free spirited single Indian men-Bhaveen Sheth DOTSIM

Sometime back , I read an article which spoke on an extreme level of intolerance of the Indian society towards free spirited single Indian women.However it failed to mention on an equal level or even more intolerance directed towards free spirited single Indian men.

Our society has never accepted the so called single status of people and has always detested people who have chosen to live a single life.While single Indian women are detested for not getting married and giving birth to a child, single Indian men are hated for not getting married, settling down and living a decent family life. Single Indian men are often accused of being vagabounds.

Indian society is made up of various likes and dislikes, at times it contradicts its very own structure,foundation and values.

Tolerance towards single Indian men especially those who are free spirited and live a happy life is extremely limited. In India, you won't find men who are single, somehow they get married, those who are not married are in the process of being hitched. I can't vouch the same for the single Indian women. Men who stay single out of their own choice face  lots of criticism and taunts.The society blacklists and debars them.Limited people will associate with them, their very existence is a source of criticism.

Single free spirited men are seen as a threat to the normal order of the Indian society.Since childhood we have been indoctrinated into following the routine protocol of life, you know, getting a good education, getting a job, getting married, settling down and having children.So what happens when some Indian men stay single out of their own choice and challenge this society order?They are certainly bound to become a source of envy and hatred.

It takes a lot of strength, courage and resilience for  Indian men to remain single.The decision to stay single is itself a difficult one to make.Once you start enjoying your own company and start living your life, you draw the attention of other people, free spirited single Indian men can do a lot of things that their married counterparts cannot.With no responsibilities over us , we are eagles soaring high in the skies.By staying single we disturb the natural order of the society hence we are disliked, we are branded irresponsible as we don not undertake the responsibilities of a family and fatherhood.No one is willing to accept the fact that we are pursuing our own interest at the cost of sacrificing our married life.

Our lifestyle is a big question mark for many. Most people think that we boose, take drugs, watch pronograpic movies,womanize and live a shabby life, that is certainly not the case. Now we cannot go around justifying our existence, can we? Remaining single allows us to pursue the activities of our own interests, we are more content with our lives compared to our married peers.Many single Indian men take a step further to take good care of themselves, age gracefully, become voracious readers and wonderful conversationalists.These men shine out, so they get hated, single men also do not have the financial woes that married folks have, no home loans, no car loans, no school and college fees to pay. Thirties and forties are a bliss for the single Indian men. So now tell me , why won't the single guys be hated.

Indian society will always remain intolerant, it does not accept the minority or diverse people.We often see its hatred directed towards its religious minorities , low castes, dark skinned people, north east Indians, the LTGB community , widows, divorcees and singles. Ohhh and not to forget the hatred towards the non-vegetarian eaters and those who exercise their freedom of speech.

We the single Indian men are free spirited souls, we have chosen this life, we don't need confirmation from idiotic and stupid married Indian men who claim to be representing the society, we don't need any advice and we don't want help.If the society hates, so be it. Who and what is the Indian society? It is made up of four people who will always have something critical to say no matter what you do.

The society is never going to accept us as we have violated its norms, rules and laws and we don't need its acceptance either.Our married peers will always have something to say. What you will eventually carry to your death bed are memories and experiences, do your best to make them look good.Looking back it is these memories that will bring a smile on your face. So go ahead and life your free spirited life without bothering about others.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH

Friday, June 16, 2017

The good Indian woman is dead-Bhaveen Sheth DOTSIM

In this writeup, Bhaveen Sheth , the single Indian man writes an obituary for the good Indian woman, he honestly pays a tribute to all the good things she did for her family and the society.She is one of those nameless and faceless woman who has never been appreciated. In this write up I put in my thoughts for her appreciation and adulation.




The dawn of the 21st century has been difficult for the Indian society. In the last two decades we have seen a rapid transformation on the side of the Indian women, but this transformation has been for the worse,We get to seen a lot of arm chair feminists, pseudo feminists, middle class Indian princesses and of course feminazis. It is only after dealing with such women does one realize the importance and the relevance of good Indian women.They were the women who were there in our father's and grandfather's times, they were the real women of substance, their feminine presence and charm was wonderful, their demeanor and grace commanded respect, they converted simple houses into wonderful homes, what wonderful women they were.

They too used to be ambitious but they chose to put the needs and requirements of the family before theirs.They worked hard in bringing up a family, raising children and maintaining strong family bonds.They did all the housework without cribbing or complaining, they sat down and tutored their children, cooked meals and served it to their husbands and gave them good company.They were certainly not materialistic, small things made them happy, seeing their family happy brought joy to them. They did not get sucked into this wave of feminism. Some of them worked in offices and institutions and yet did not neglect their families.After work they would go home, cook and prepare for the next day. 

They were cost conscious as they would even save a small penny for the future.Narcissism and self obsession was never a part of their personality trait.Guests were always entertained at home and these women would make it a point to play the role of good hostesses without being asked for.Their cooking skills were exemplary, each woman was a master cook in her own way.Their speeches and conversations were wonderful, never did they use abusive language filled with expletives and profanities.They took care of the elders and took up the role of dutiful daughters. They were givers of love and affection.Some of these women were not educated but they were extremely skillful and street smart. All of them were wonderful in their own way.They were the epitome of a wonderful family and a pillar of the Indian society. Today we miss them badly, these women no longer exist, at best they are an endangered species and at worse they are extinct.

As I come to the end of this post , I clearly state that we are now seeing a new toxic species of Indian women who have been indoctrinated into the wrong ideas of feminism. These women will not cook, they will not clean, and they will not take care of their homes.All they will do is study bullshit educational courses, get worthless degrees that have no employment value, undertake jobs that are boring and miserable and claim that they are the strong empowered Indian women. They will spend their entire salaries on beautifying themselves.They are too self centred,too self obsessed and narcissistic.Maturity has never dawned upon them.To tell you the truth, no one wants them, no man wants them as a wife, no parent want them as a daughter, no one wants them as a daughter in law.These women have become unwanted even in their homes Their parents see them as an unwanted burden. Day by day their(parents) worry rises , after all ,which decent man would like to marry such a woman. 

One will find scores of such women  in India mostly in their 30's and 40's who are still single and miserable.And if any of you women belonging to this category are reading this post , I suggest that you have a good look at yourself and what you really are. A good Indian woman in spite of all her imperfections is always desired.Women of your kind will always be considered unwanted.This is the real truth of many Indian women of today's times.

Ending this post, I feel sad that our society has fallen to such miserable times. As Indian men we miss the good Indian women.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

BHAVEEN SHETH

Tuesday, April 4, 2017

When Single Indian women face the sum of all fears-Bhaveen Sheth-DOTSIM

The sum of all fears is a quote made by the belligerent late British Prime Minister Mr.Winston Churchill.To put is simply it means when all your realized and unrealized fears become true and you find it difficult to face them.

The same applies to all these thirty (30) plus single Indian women. There are many incidents or events that happen forcing these women to face the sum of all their fears. So what exactly happens? Well, it is an avalanche of all problems that come together when these women hit their early 30's.Things don't go the way they have imagined.Marriage prospects start drying up, peer pressure to get married increases,parents age and start having health problems, life is not easy.These women have never realized the major problems that are going to hit them at a certain point of time.

And one day something finally hits them and hits them hard.Marriage prospects decline,rejections get multiplied,parents suffer from ill health, siblings get married and start having a family, friends also get married, hormonal changes happen, the need for companionship and craving for motherhood goes up.Things don't happen the way they wanted and life takes a different turn.This is what I call as the sum of all fears.

No matter how strong Indian women claim to be, they are weak.They need support and companionship and if they don't get it, they will break down. Life then takes a downward spiral.

And if you happen to be that single Indian women reading this post ,I kindly request you to think again.No matter how much you cherish your single hood a day will come when you will face the sum of all fears.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lo more.