Friday, September 1, 2017


The single Indian man, Bhaveen Sheth writes on today's eligible educated Indian bachelorettes holding professional degrees and employed in MNC's,  IT firms and big corporations at good designations looking for soul mates on matrimonial sites and other online platforms.

Now if you are a 30 plus single Indian man looking to get married and have registered themselves on matrimonial sites, you are going to come across women who are also 30 plus and majority of the profiles will be something like this:

I am blah blah blah blah having done my bachelors from some an A grade college , masters , again from some A grade college holding the qualification of an MBA, CA, LLB, IT, doctor or engineer located in a teir-1 city working for some big organization holding the designation of a Team leader, Vice-President or Senior Manager or some fancy designation decided by the organization's corporate HR. The salary per an-um will be anywhere between Rs 8 Lakhs (starting) to Rs 20 Lakhs and more.All these women are  globetrotters having traveled across different places in the world.

I am sure that many eligible single Indian men reading this post have definitely come across such profiles. What would you do? Consider them? If there is an iota of dignity and self respect left within you, I am sure that you will never consider them.

When you go through the profiles of such women it feels like you are reading someone's professional background similar to the ones posted on LinkedIn profiles.

What do we men really want? Do we want career oriented women having fancy designations who cannot offer any warmth, love and affection? Do these women really care about someone other than themselves or their careers? Not being judgmental but a majority of these women are so driven by a strong narcissistic element to look good and beautiful that they are often seen in the gym, beauty parlors and at cosmetic clinics.

This is not what we Indian men are looking for. We are looking for a real woman, a woman who can turn a house into a home, a woman who can offer us love, warmth and affection, a woman who can cook good food and feed us. Isn't cooking a meal for someone equivalent to expressing love.

The women about whom I have mentioned  often complain they are not able to find suitable men. It is sad to see them live a life filled with delusion.The truth is that no one wants to marry them as they are on a high pedestal. Men look for women who can bring value addition in a marriage and sadly speaking these women can't.

The feminists and feminazis may find my writings misogynist but I am portraying the reality.Have a look at the statistics of single Indian women especially in urban cities and you will come to know that it is these women who have been left out, have become left overs and are perpetually single.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.


Thursday, August 31, 2017

Indian women oscillate between extremes of patriarchy and femisnism for their own benefits-BHAVEEN SHETH INDIAN MGTOW

At present there is an all out war going on between the patriarchs and feminists in India.The old patriarchal system is now being challenged by the new feminist order.More and more women are defying the rules imposed by the Indian society.The Indian feminist women have spearheaded freedom and liberation for Indian women.

REALLY!!!!!This is a question I would like to ask my readers.Are the Indian women (the so called modern and liberalized) women truly liberated and independent as they proclaim.I have my doubts.

The feminists in the west are independent.They live their lives on their own terms.They work hard,earn a living and pay for their own EMI's on things they buy and assert their individuality.Even if they get married they remain the same and equally contribute as a partner in marriage.

This is certainly not the case with the Indian women.The modern and liberated women make the best use of the misogynist and feminists systems to gain advantage and meet their own vested interests and desires.In the points mentioned below, one will easily understand why they do it.

1. Many women are getting educated or over educated just to get a well qualified groom who earns a handsome salary. Even if these women have a job, they quit it post marriage stating that it is now the responsibility of the husband to take care of them.

2.These women want extreme freedom and extreme protection. They want to go to discotheques and late night parties wearing miniskirts and see through clothes, they want to get drunk, they want to try pot(weed) and get stoned and yet they want the society,the police and the administration to protect them during such dark hours when sexual predators are lurking around waiting to take advantage of a vulnerable prey. I remember, a few years back when Jamia University put restrictions on female students at girls hostel where they were expected to report back by 8 PM.This lead to a huge out cry by young feminist girls who protested by stating that their freedom was being restricted and selective gender discrimination was being practiced by the university. The University authorities had invoked this rule in the wake of the cases of gang rapes and molestations happening in and around Delhi.But see what happened!! A step taken up for the safety of young girls lead to a massive feminist outcry.

3.At workplace too, some women resort to dubious practices. They claim that they are independent and career oriented but deep down they carry a patriarchal mindset.Ask them to stay beyond work hours and they will cite infinite reasons not to, the first one being that of being that they have plenty of responsibilities at home and the fact that they have to juggle between office and work. If a male reporting officer is slightly strict with a female subordinate or were he to give her a honest appraisal based on her poor performance, this woman would go an file a case of sexual harassment against him clearly knowing that it would be ruled in her favour. So much for being a career oriented woman.

4.Marriage is important for all Indian women. Gone are those days when a couple would adjust in a marriage.The feminist Indian women want everything for themselves. The will never marry a man who is having qualifications and earning a salary lower to them.They will even refuse to marry a man who is equal to them. They want the best even though they may be just average or mediocre. As I have mentioned in my previous blog posts, these women love rejecting prospective suitors as they feel that such matches are pathetic. And mind you, these women are educated, earn a good salary and have everything to their disposal and yet they want a guy who is on a higher pedestal both on the social and economic front.Wow! So much for empowerment. In Indian marriages a husband is expected to take up three major responsibilities of being a provider, protector care taker.

Let us not forget of the actual marriage ceremony or what I would say as the big fat Indian wedding. Almost all urban Indian women want a lavish wedding for themselves, they suddenly go on a splurge mode.They will go to the extent of forcing their parents to spend enormous sums of money. Can't these women have a simple marriage? Can't they go for a court marriage?No! These women want the best when it comes to their marriage, it is all about themselves.

5.I now draw the attention of my readers to the social evil of dowry that has been existing in our society for centuries.Education was supposed to reform the society but it did not. The dowry problem has got magnified in India and to a great extent these so called educated liberalized Indian women are responsible for it.In my previous writings I have clearly stated that these Indian women want the best in their grooms. In reality these grooms come at a price and the name of that price is dowry. Many women force their parents to pay up a hefty dowry in order to get married to grooms who earn well. If the marriage turns sour , these women file false cases under their husbands and in-laws under the legal provision of dowry harassment and domestic violence.These women start behaving like victims and accuse their in-laws of torture and harassment.

6. So now lets talk about sex, one of the most controversial issues within the Indian marriage system.Just recently the Indian feminists had demanded a law to be made for marital rape. They want sex within a marriage to be made into a criminal offense. Within a marriage Indian women can deny sex to their husbands, some of them even stray and have extra marital affairs claiming that they are not satisfied with their husbands. And if a man were to do the same he gets accused of adultery.

7.I talk on home responsibilities: Today's Indian women have become allergic at doing housework.Armed with an education and a job, they feel it is below their dignity to do housework.Their first priority after marriage is to hire a maid. Thirty years ago the concept of hiring a maid was restricted only to the rich class.But today even middle class families that run on a tight financial budget hire a house maid. All because of the arrogant women. They won't mop the floors, dust the rooms, cook food and wash dishes.And if you go to the pasts of these women into their childhoods and teenage years , you will realize that they have done all these things.Even in Western countries educated working women do their own housework, they don't hire any maids.

I strongly believe that a couple should be equal partners in the institution of marriage. But is it really so? Not at all. Post marriage many Indian women try to take an upper hand in the marriage.For them marriage is all about independence and liberation. They want their husbands to get them what they want. Another thing observed is that post marriage these women quit their jobs and become stay at home wives.They state that post marriage it is the responsibility of the husband to take care of his wife.They will just not work. Now tell me how do you expect a person to be an equal partner in a marriage if she cannot contribute financially? 

From a strong independent feminist Indian woman who holds a job and earns a decent salary to a full time sit at home wife who claims that as per traditional patriarchal system it is the duty of the husband to take care of his wife. BRAVO INDIAN WOMEN!!! GREAT GOING.

Concluding my post, I draw the attention of my readers on how the Indian women are taking advantage of feminism and patriarchy. This is the true face of so many so called educated modern Indian women. This my friends is a sad reality of our great nation.

Tuesday, August 8, 2017

When every Indian female divorcee has the same goddamn story-Bhaveen Sheth DOTSIM

This Single Indian man, Bhaveen Sheth writes on divorced Indian women.Many divorcees opt for a second marriage and if they are questioned on the reasons for getting divorced, they all have one common story. Having met and interacted with many divorcees myself through online matrimonial sites and having heard the stories of many Indian men who have met divorcees for a possible matrimonial alliance, I summarise the commonly repeated stories told by Indian female divorcees.

The divorcee woman will first and foremost always complain about her former husband. She will make him sound like a villain.He will be portrayed as a sadist who had no emotions, remorse or forgiveness.So what was really wrong with him? Well, he was wicked, he used to beat and abuse his spouse, he resorted to physical violence, he was mentally unstable, he was an alcoholic/drug addict/chain smoker, he was a sex maniac and watched pornography 24*7.he was kinky and sadist in the bedroom, he was impotent, he had low self esteem, he suffered from depression,he was not adequately qualified, he could not hold a job for more than six months, he never gave me time, he was immature,he did not grow up to take responsibilities that comes in a marriage,he was a mama's boy, he forced me to get money from my parents even after marriage, he never cared for me,he was still in a relationship with his former girlfriend, he was a miser, he never bought a house or a car,he never gave me my space, he refused to shift out from his parents home and stayed with them. In short he was the worst husband in the world.

Now we come to the other members of the family of the former husband, the father, the mother, the brother, the sister and other close relatives.All of them were villains belonging to different fraternities of  Bollywood movies and Indian television serials.The father in law was a patriarch, misogynist and a male chauvinistic pig.In short he was the dominating  Amrish Puri of the house.The mother in law was an upgraded version of Nirupa Roy, Bindu and Aruna Irani being extremely dominant, dictatorial, controlling and insecure.She had a complete hold over her son and constantly interfered in the marriage.The brother in law was some wayward fellow lost in his own world and in some cases he molested this now divorcee woman who is sitting in front of you and telling you her sad story.The sister in law was an extremely jealous woman , she was a caricature of all those monster sister in laws we get to see on Saas Bahu television series produced by Ekta Kapoor.In short the whole family was villainous and dysfunctional.

Never will one hear any of these women admitting to their own faults or mistakes. In extremely rare cases and that would be like six sigma, a woman may admit that she too was wrong.

To many single Indian men who are looking out for marriage and have met a divorcee, please read my post carefully. If a woman is constantly blaming her former husband and in laws for her failed marriage then there is something that is seriously wrong with her. Just take my advice and avoid such a kind of woman, she will only bring ruin and destruction to your life.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.

Bhaveen Sheth

Monday, July 17, 2017

Kyaa Kar Sakti Hai Police? Bhaveen Sheth DOTSIM

In this short post, the single Indian man would like to share a popular video on you tube of a scene form the  Bollywood movie "GUDDU RANGEELA".

In this video, a police man on an inspector level is threatening suspected robbers on what the police can do against anyone. Have a look below:

In a brilliant acting done by Amit Sial, he shows the reality of the Indian police.All Indian men should watch this video and think, how biased and prejudiced the policing system in India really is.

We have often seen women complaining at police stations and falsely accusing their husbands and in-laws. In order to make a quick buck or being influenced by the woman and her family, the police books the man and his family in all sorts of false cases like 498a, domestic violence, harassment and a lot more.

This is a reality that all Single Indian men must know especially those who are planning to get married.

This post was just to create and awareness amongst all Single Indian men and they need to be aware of this in their daily dealings with women.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.


Friday, July 14, 2017


This article is written on behalf of all Alpha Indian men who share a similar opinion that no matter what , a woman should know cooking if she wants to get married and become a wife. Educated or not educated , cooking skill is a mandatory requirement for all Indian women who want to get hitched. The Single Indian man clearly states to all Indian men reading this blog that whenever they go looking out for a spouse in an arranged marriage setup, they should ask whether the woman knows this or not. This is nothing to feel embarrassed or shameful about. Writing as a third person please find my post below:

As Indian men we too have expectations and there is nothing wrong about it.We love good food and fine cooking.Our moms have always given us the best meals. Is it wrong if we expect the same from our wives or future wives?

Feminist media has sold a false ideology to the modern Indian women which considers cooking as equivalent to slavery.This has made many Indian women averse to cooking and they fail to learn and master this important skill. Have a look at the false propaganda on internet

Go and ask any of these so called modern Independent women, do they know how to cook? Can they manage cooking and grocery shopping? The answer is no! They can't. They are just busy doing unnecessary work like chatting on whats app, social media, binge watching television episodes, clubbing, pubbing, outings. They live mostly on takeaways, home deliveries and meals cooked by maids. Some of these women are so pathetic that they can't even operate a gas stove. Have a look at a video down below:

This is the real condition of today's so called modern empowered Indian women.

Cooking is an important skill that each and every Indian women must know if she wants to get married, have a happy family and married life and raise healthy children.Why is child and teen obesity rising in India? The answer is that women are not able to cook healthy food and are feeding junk and garbage food to their children. 

If Indian men are considered worthy because of their education, salaries, property and car ownership then an Indian woman should definitely be considered worthy based on her knowledge of culinary skills.

There is nothing wrong if Indian men look for a wife who knows how to cook or is willing to learn the same.It is necessary.Men work hard all day long,they need good food for breakfast, lunch and dinner and the responsibility falls on the wife.

So if an Indian woman does not know how to cook, she should not be considered as a suitable alliance and Indian man should take up a stand in rejecting her. I rest my case here. PERIOD.

This is Bhaveen Sheth singning off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.


Monday, July 10, 2017


In this short blog post I write down certain trends that I have observed on the online matrimonial platforms.

In January this year , quite reluctantly I once again registered myself on a matrimonial site. Yaaa!!! You guessed right,!!!It was done just to show the world that people like me do exist (especially when women complain that there are no good men left in India.)

After my registration some interests did come but nothing proceeded further and now I hardly get any expression of interests.I am not bothered because I know better. But recently I have observed that my profile views have drastically increased. Many potential matches have visited my profile, some have done it repeatedly but there has been no expression of interest.

My profile pictures, education and profession may make me a potential suitor but because of a zero family background I hardly stand a chance. On my profile I have been extremely transparent about myself stating each and every aspect of my life and accordingly I have written the content under the heading "ABOUT MYSELF". But somewhere I feel that it the truth that is repelling them. After all who would want to associate with a n orphan ? Who would want to marry his daughter/sister to marry a person who has no family? I am looked upon with suspicion. Yes sir, this is the harsh reality of being an orphan in India.People may sympathize with you but none will empathize. Didn't a wise man say that marriage is a union between two families and not 2 individuals.

At-least I now have an answer if someone were to ask me why online matrimonial sites never worked in my favour? It is written in this post of mine.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.


Sunday, July 9, 2017

On ungrateful Indian women by Bhaveen Sheth-DTOSIM

The single Indian man writes in the topic of ungrateful Indian women,One comes across them in different walks of life. No matter how good someone is towards them,no matter what help people have done towards them, these women remain perpetually ungrateful towards everything and everyone.They constantly crib criticise and blame each and everyone.In this blog post, I would like to put in my own thoughts and opinions on them.

We come across Indian women who are  ungrateful towards people, situations, events and things.They have never appreciated how people have gone beyond their limits to meet their expectations.These are the women criticise their fathers,mothers, siblings, classmates, boyfriends and husbands for each and everything. For get  any acknowledgement of help and support, these women think that they are entitled for better treatment and privileged to get things out of turn.They have had their way during childhood and now as an adult one gets to see the manifestation of a sociopathic behaviour.

One can easily identify by the statements they make.They often criticise their boyfriends or spouses for not doing enough for them, they speak bad things about people who have stood by them during their difficult times.They treat human relationship as a tissue paper that is to be used and discarded.When things go wrong they tend to put the blame on others.Their expectations are extremely high but they themselves are mediocre.However they are blessed with fair skin or above average looks, hence we see Indian men wagging their tails like dogs in order to meet their expectations.

My heart goes out to the men who have married these ungrateful Indian women.These men are victims of domestic emotional abuse constantly being criticised no matter how hard they work to better care givers, providers, husbands and spouses. Denigrating their husbands and comparing them with other successful men are strong arm tactics of emotional abuse used by these ungrateful Indian women.

As I finish writing this blog post , I fail to understand how ungrateful Indian women are in-spite of getting each and everything that a 21st century urban Indian women get and that too without working hard for it.These women have never seen the struggles that their Indian counterparts face in India's small towns and rural villages. Had they seen of experienced it, they would have been grateful and filled with gratitude. But that is certainly not the case her.

This is Bhaveen Sheth signing off for the day and promise to be back with a lot more.